The Ultimate Divorce Organizer: The Complete, Interactive
Guide to Achieving the Best Financial and Personal Divorce
I am both proud and pleased to share with you my first book! This book is the most
comprehensive guide to navigating the choppy waters of divorce there is. It combines
my approach to divorce coaching with practical, applicable tools for moving along both
your personal and legal journey.
While I wrote it for those of you who are contemplating divorce, separated, or going through it... it is just as helpful for those of you who are moving forward after, especially in that first year or so. You will find worksheets, exercises and strategies for managing all of the areas of your life that now need your attention. Most importantly, it will act as a guide so that you can go through this transition with honor, integrity and understanding. I hope you find comfort, strength and support through it!
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So, you are getting divorced. No matter how the word has entered your vocabulary, it finds your head swirling with questions:
Not only are these questions normal, but they are exactly the questions you should be asking yourself, and they are only the first of many more questions that you will need to answer. Divorce is one of the most difficult transitions that any individual can go through. It can create feelings of anxiety, fear, sadness, anger, isolation, and being overwhelmed. |
All of these emotions are strong and all have the ability to paralyze us from moving forward and doing what we need to do. At the same time, in order to manage the journey of divorce and all of the areas of your life that need your attention, you will need to stay on top of it. You will need a clear head and a clear vision of where you want to go. Although every divorce is different and offers its own challenges, what happens during the process is more within your control than you imagine. Your choices and decisions NOW will lead to the outcome of the process. |
In my role as divorce coach, my affiliations with associations that serve divorce professionals have given me access to some of the finest experts in the field. While working on this book, I asked them what they viewed as the ideal preparation for divorce and what they would consider the most important information for any individual to know as they begin the divorce process.
Without exception, every professional I surveyed including lawyers, financial advisors, mediators, real estate experts, or parenting coaches agreed on the following:
Managing your emotional journey through divorce will have the greatest impact on the legal and financial outcome of your divorce.
Every decision you make during this time will affect the rest of your life, so gathering information is critical.
It is most important to know and believe that there will be a new and wonderful life after divorce.
Creating a peaceful and amicable divorce is a conscious choice and that there are many experts and professionals available to support you in this decision.
Rushing to "get it over" is the worst choice that can be made during the divorce process.
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Every divorce is unique because yours belongs solely to you. Your journey through divorce will be one that touches all of the areas of your life. It is not only the dissolution of your marriage, but it will also be a catalyst for massive change, growth, and self discovery.
The Ultimate Divorce Organizer is your comprehensive resource for knowing what comes next, preparing for it, and keeping track of all that you will need to accomplish. Utilize this organizer as a guide to keep you focused on creating a fair and amicable divorce. Remember, divorce is not an end, it is a beginning. |
